"If you build it, they will come."

Or, "If I throw it, will anyone show up?"

#59. Throw a charity Christmas party.

Tonight, via Facebook, I revealed what the Mystery Event Formerly Known as Dec. 23rd But Actually Is Dec.16 is: it's a party. A do-good, feel-good party. A party that will aim to raise money for the Canadian Women's Foundation (cdnwomen.org). A party that I hope will end off an extremely successful year of fun, learning, and an abundance of personal growth.

On Thurs. Dec. 16th, I'm throwing a dance party fundraiser at The Boat in Kensington Market. My friend DJ Cool Adam (a.k.a Adam) is spinning great music from VINYL. There'll be baked goods, prizes, funny costumes to try on, mistletoe headbands, and much, much more.

I received my approval from the CWF today and nearly jumped out of my skin with joy. Prevention of violence against women is a cause that is close to my heart and, in recent years, has grown more and more important to me. The CWF helps to fund so many fantastic initiatives; in Ontario alone, they support programs that provide loans to women who are leaving abusive relationships, help mothers rebuild their lives after violence and after their children have witnessed violence, assist female youth who may be at risk of involvement in the sex trade industry, and many, many other issues. The foundation supports campaigns for women of all cultures, creeds, sexual orientations, languages and abilities. Heck, of COURSE I will raise money for them!

The CWF also starts issuing tax receipts at $10 so that's extra fantastic. Also, it seems to be run by cool people. An extra bonus.

But this is the part where I cross my fingers. I will plan and shop and budget and decorate and advertise to my heart's content, but the success of the evening depends on others. I just have to work hard and be prepared for the night, no matter want.

I want this to be a success. I really do. I planned for this entry to be longer and more detailed, but I'm just so nervous as it is. I've released the kraken. Here we go, folks.

And if you've stumbled upon this little blog entry, I hope to see you there on the 16th!

<3,

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